I was also sent a screenshot of Jerome saying “Maggy and Vaddy both caused a big commotion” which is completely untrue, and I feel only being said because I wasn’t there to defend myself.
First of all, I didn’t tell Vaddy to go and do what he did, nor did he do it because of my punishment. Vaddy was sick of how Jerome has ran the server into the ground, and how he constantly punishes Vaddy for doing literally nothing wrong other than disagreeing with him, then not giving a valid reason when Vaddy prompts him for one.
Vaddy was timed out yesterday in the discord for literally nothing other than asking why I had been banned and then calling Prof an internet janitor or something along those lines. After asking why he was he was provided no reason. He has shown me multiple occurrences of this happening and told me he was sick of it, and sick of all the staff literally being free to abuse their power (primarily Jerome) and that it ruined the server to the point he wasn’t bothered to play anymore, and quit the server.
Vaddy had every right to act like he did, because he is literally correct in saying the server is COMPLETELY FULL of abuse, bias and the like.
Not to mention, what commotion did I cause? I joined the server yesterday after zhenny had snitched on me (for no reason, at no benefit to himself, after I had done nothing wrong to him and he clearly was not offended by my use of the word.) and asked him what his problem with me was, as it was very clear to me he reported me cus he has a problem, not because he actually cared (as I have heard others say slurs in the VC while he was there and he didn’t even bat an eye) and apparently this was causing a commotion? I had literally moved to PMs with him about it after sending like 4 messages into chat, I don’t see how in any way shape or form this is causing a commotion if the majority of our discussion wasn’t even public to the server.
This is just another example of Jerome’s bias, saying that ME AND VADDY had both “caused a commotion” when I had no part in Vaddy’s actions, and Vaddy had been pretty reasonable up to that point with the amount of shit Jerome has done to him.
When you give a staff member the ability to remove someone’s biggest pass-time hobby, and they don’t even have to provide clear reasons, you’re giving someone a HELL of a lot of power. Me and lots of other people that actually PLAY the server get on very well, whereas Jerome seems to come online every few days to handle a report and that is about it. Why are the people who interact the least in the server being given the most power to change things about it?
A lot of us members have the server as our main hobby outside of work, so its quite annoying having someone who doesn’t even play on it or contribute anything to it (outside of the odd late “event” and his biased opinion) have the ability to remove you from it because of how he feels about you. Jerome couldn’t even know me, he hasn’t interacted with me enough, and I’d be absolutely honoured to hop in a VC with him and talk for an hour about why I think all the shit he does is biased and wrong, and how he doesn’t even know me, but I know he won’t do that because he is afraid I’m going to call him names.
If it would also be possible, I’d love for the ability to call and talk with the other management members. I feel like I would be able to articulate all my concerns about the way Jerome runs the server and how he treats members as opposed to staff a lot easier than over text, as any concerns or questions any of you have I can instantly answer as well as provide proof via screensharing. I understand you’re all probably very busy so even if it’s 1 at a time and only a 10 minute call I’ll take what I can get.
I also saw evidence of what Vaddy had done yesterday in the server, and immediately staff had started saying things like “Crash out King” which to me is literally trying to stir shit, its trying to make someone ( who they thought was angry ) even more angry, instead of trying to defuse the situation (i.e. by handling it as a STAFF MEMBER instead of an emotionally charged person. You all could’ve said “woah, no need” or “alright, thats enough” but instead you laughed and called him mad. Having such a poor view on handling stuff within the server like that is something that needs instantly addressed by a real Manager (I say real because Jerome also partook in doing this, and literally named his ban “Crash Out King”) which is a very poor look for the server and its staff. The fact they even thought Vaddy was “crashing out” or angry in any way is kind of pathetic and sad, you think he cared that much about the server when he was constantly mistreated? The whole reason he did what he did was because Jerome and his poorly trained / managed staff team made the server THAT unbearable that Vaddy didn’t care about punishment anymore.
I would also like to share some messages I had been sent by several long-term big name members of the server yesterday, although if I do this it will be confidential ( I will not share their names ) and I will get their permission first before sharing anything as it’s their private messages and I respect they may not want to become a target for abuse.